Edward Bowlin Maupin II (May 26, 1914-April 27, 1971)
A father-daughter relationship can sometimes be complicated. My dad, Kenneth Wayne Moats I, was and remains a wonderful father, and I am very blessed to have had him as a role model growing up. However, I never truly bonded with him until later in life, when I was nearly in my thirties. I can recall the profound moment I stopped considering my dad as some authoritarian figure in my life and instead started thinking of him as a friend. It occurred in 1998 when my parents visited me in Gardendale, Alabama, where I escaped after my divorce. One night, as I often did alone, my parents and I walked to a restaurant only two miles from my apartment for dinner. Afterward, we grabbed a six-pack of wine coolers to drink while sauntering home underneath the stars on a crisp, perfect night. As we leisurely strolled, the three of us easily engaged in conversation that altered back and forth from humorous to significant, inconsequential to relative, while sometimes laughing and at others talking. Occasionally, we just walked in silence, enveloped deep within our thoughts. During our memorable walk that night, my father had stopped being just my dad, and somehow, along those two miles, he had metamorphosed into a friend. I will never forget that night! However, despite the relationship that grew that night between us, the relationship between my brother and father was significantly different. My dad has always boasted that he didn't just get a son upon my brother's arrival, but he also gained a best friend! However, my brother, Kenneth Wayne Moats II, and my father's relationship isn't unique nor uncommon. Every male enjoys seeing the continuation of themselves in another human being. The bond between a father and a son is inexplicable. Numerous commonalities existed between my brother and father. I'm sure it is the bond of shared DNA. A thread that signifies my dad's existence continues. A similar link existed between my distant cousins Edward Bowlin Maupin Jr. and Edward Bowlin Maupin Sr. Here is Jr.'s story. A reflection of his dad's.
1934, June 17, The Tennessean, Nashville, Tennessee, Page 30 |
In numerous ways, throughout Edward's life, he illustrated profound respect for his father, as seen in his mimicking of his father's choices. Edward's dad was the President of Peoples National Bank upon his sudden death in 1942, but he was already grooming his son for his replacement [14-15]. By the time of Edward Sr.'s demise, Edward Jr. was already playing a pivotal role within the company as the Cashier and eventually as a member of the Board of Directors and an Executive Vice President [50-54]. His feet may have been following his father's pathway, but Edward was making his mark within his professional realm and community, earning respect from his peers.
1954, March 8, Nashville Banner, Nashville, Tennessee, Page 22 |
I have always jokingly teased my father that should my brother ever become lost to this world, it would be necessary for me to purchase in advance three cemetery plots. However, although playful in its delivery, there is truth within that statement because I know my parents could never survive the loss of my brother, Ken. That is especially true of my dad. If it were possible to die literally of a broken heart, my father would be another example should my brother depart before him. He loves his children equally, but his relationship with my brother is much deeper and different than that of his daughters. Like Edward, my brother has numerous physical features and capabilities that resemble my dad's. I'm uncertain whether or not Edward's choices came to him consciously or unconsciously or how much resulted from simple DNA and nurturing. The same is true for my dad and brother's relationship. Their nuances and subtleties of one another make it impossible to deny genealogy. Perhaps that is part of what's at the root of my fascination with my own and the many reasons I continuously ponder the same question. What makes us who we are? It is a complex question for the black sheep of the family and the one who got thrown away.
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